‘Pologies about that post. When I first wrote it about a month ago it was two paragraphs long, and was subsequently redrafted down to its current shriveled size and post-dated so I could think about it… sometime in the future. The future snuck up on me and bang – it posted itself. There was no point in taking it down because it doesn’t come off RSS feed.
But anyway, honestly, I don’t get what all the surprised responses were about (mostly via email. I guess nosy people don’t want to be so publicly nosy.) Was it that
1. Bad4 learned something about herself, cool, let’s find out what it was
2. Someone thinks dating is a self-revealing experience? Let’s find out why
I imagine I was really stating the obvious there. You have certain perceptions of yourself, what’s important to you, and what you want in life. And then you go on a date and discover that some things might matter more than you though, or that something you thought you liked actually gets on your nerves, etc. And then you begin to wonder who you really are and what you really want.