I like this post by ProfK about eliminating women’s names because she comes up with an excellent alternative: replace them with numbers that include all a woman’s vital shidduch stats. I think that’s amazing! Eliminate the shidduch profile! Just send a number!
And I guess, just like she changes her last name post-marriage, she changes her number. I mean, I’m sure her husband wouldn’t want everyone to know all her vital stats. I’m not sure what the new number would tell, though. I’ll leave that to ProfK.