Link: All the Single Ladies – My Thoughts

Part 1 of Link: All the Single Ladies


The Atlantic article: All the Single Ladies

Here’s my favorite line from the article. Analyzing, as she is, the major changes occurring to the American family and modern marriage, Bolick points out why this is such an issue right here and now:

“But real change can seldom take hold when economic forces remain static. The extraordinary economic flux we’re in is what makes this current moment so distinctive.”

That’s it, folks. We’re in one of Those Times. You know those great crises of change in history, like the Industrial Revolution, the French Revolution, the colonization of America, the rise of Christianity, the rise of Islam, the unification of Italy, the birth of modern economics (eg: The Great Depression)?

All of these moments are romanticized in our minds and our public libraries, but truth be stated: they were miserable periods for most of the people involved.

This is our fate–this is the revolutionary moment in history that we’ve drawn. So, some aspects of our life may seem miserable. But just think of our future! When this revolution is completed and the New American Household is established, we will be romanticized in novels, documented in history books, expounded upon in college courses.

We’ll be famous!

Who knows? Maybe they’ll even read BadforShidduchim as a primary source documentation from this period. If you want to be quoted in history, comment below!


BadforShidduchim in a Nutshell

Ezzie sent me this link to a summary of the content of this blog.

I wish I could say it wasn’t a very good one. There were certainly points where I was thinking, “No! It’s not like that! …well, not always. Not with everyone. Okay fine, sometimes. Well, maybe…”

I was a little dismayed to read myself characterized as immature, but I perked up a bit when I saw that I was immature for a 26-year-old. As I’m a 24-year-old, that’s to be expected.

To the author of the post: Hi! *waves*

And to everyone else: we’ll be taking a hiatus until after the crunching holiday. I’ll see you on the other side of too many carbs!